Gay in closet
‘Inside the closet,’ and what it means to continue in silence
Editor’s note: the writer of this column was kept anonymous out of safety concerns.
I realized I was bisexual at age 12, around the same time I became aware of my hometown’s widespread homophobia.
Confronted with the question, “What does that school teach about male lover people?” at a neighborhood dinner in middle university, I struggled for answers, nervously squeaking out the rhetoric my Christian institution taught.
I was secretly long-distance dating a guy at the same time. The man who asked me the question said same-sex attracted people chose to be that way.
“Being gay is not a choice,” my mom told the neighbor. “It’s like any other mental illness, like alcoholism.”
Hearing those words marked a crossroads for me: I could either come out and risk being sent to religious conversion therapy or keep my sexuality secret from my family.
So, throughout high school, I learned to hide my pride. I parroted my mom’s beliefs back to her while simultaneously arranging secret phone calls for dates when she was asleep, and finding times to hide and tear when I had breakups she would never perceive about.
My story is a common one, especially in con
The Closet
Teaching and Learning
by Amin Ghaziani | September 27, 2017 | Summer 2017
How many Americans accomplish you think are queer or lesbian? Take a minute, think about it, and take your foremost guess.
You’re probably improper .
Like most of us, you may have overestimated the population. “The American public estimates on average that 23% of Americans are gay or lesbian,” notes the Gallup polling organization. The table below shows the responses that Gallup received in 2011 and then in 2015 to the question, “Just your best guess, what % of Americans today would you say are gay or lesbian?”
Only 9% of Americans correctly estimate the size of the gay and lesbian population at somewhere under 5%. Why are we so far off? Part of the explanation comes from people’s misunderstanding of social statistics. We make similar mistakes when we estimate the size of racial and ethnic populations. Gallup remarks, “Americans estimate that a third of the U.S. population is shadowy , and believe almost three in 10 are Hispanic, more than twice what the actual percentages were as measured by the census.” The better educated you are, the reduce (and m
The ‘Global Closet’ is Huge—Vast Majority of World’s Woman-loving woman, Gay, Bisexual Population Obscure Orientation, YSPH Study Finds
The vast majority of the world’s sexual minority population — an estimated 83 percent of those who identify as lesbian, homosexual or bisexual — store their orientation hidden from all or most of the people in their lives, according to a new study by the Yale School of Universal Health that could possess major implications for global public health.
Concealing one’s sexual orientation can lead to significant mental and physical health issues, increased healthcare costs and a dampening of the public awareness necessary for advancing identical rights, said John Pachankis, Ph.D., associate professor at the Yale School of Public Health. He co-authored the study with Richard Bränström, an associate professor at the Karolinska Institutet in Sweden and analyze affiliate at Yale.
Published in the journal PLOS ONE, the study is believed to be the first attempt to quantify the size of the “global closet” in arrange to gauge its general health impact.
“Given rapidly increasing acceptance of sexual minorities in some countries, it might be easy to assume that most sexual minorities are
My 50 years of Gay (But most of it was spent deep in the closet)
Michael* ponders how his life might have been if he’d felt competent to come out as gay earlier in animation, and how community team support can make a difference now . . .
OK, in retrospect I’ve probably been gay for more than 50 years, but it was around 1967, when I was at the tender age of 13, that I began to see my friends in a modern light, and it dawned on me that some of them were rather good-looking.
Prior to this, I’d always preferred to be around other boys, girls just didn’t interest me.
I remember at primary educational facility, when I was probably only about 5 or 6 years old, I used to prefer existence with the other boys, and as I got a bit older it was boys that I spent my playtimes with, both in and out of school.
There were lots of girls in the neighbourhood, but it seemed that boys played with boys, and girls played with girls, and that suited me perfectly.
At the age of 7, I had been enrolled into the Cubs, so even more of my spare time was spent with other boys. In proof, I remained an active member of the Scouting movement until I left home for university some 11 years later.
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