Gay power bottom
Gay terminology. Similar to a bottom, but a specific variety. A power bottom tends to be in charge, and feels most powerful when bottoming; the one who bottoms is the one on the "throne" so to communicate, "taking" the Top.
Contrary to some definitions, top/bottom terms apply to all same-gender partners, and is frequently used by not only gay men but also e.g. lesbian couples.
Person A: I think I might be a verse and not a bottom.
Person B: You sure you're not a power bottom?
Person A: A what?
Person B: (explains definition)
Person A: Oml, I think you might be right.
Person C: I-I'm compassionate of shy, and... I'm not sure what I'm doing... But I would love it if you came over tonight and rode me uguu uwu
Person D: (power bottom voice) U wanna see thru time binch? Turn ur location on sis I ain't fucking around this ass HUNGRY
by languageiscool Protest 26, 2019
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- 2005
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- United States
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About
Power Bottom is an LGBTQslang term for a man who prefers to be on the receiving end of anal sex but, rather than be submissive, controls the experience and acts dominant in the relationship. It can also be used to describe men who get pride in their ability to handle well-endowed partners and the frequency with which they can hire in anal sex. Originating online as early as the mid-2000s, the designation spread on social media and other sites into the 2020s as it became more widely known.
Origin
Though it's unclear where exactly the term "Power Bottom" originated, a definition for the term was added to Urban Dictionary on August 19th, 2005, by the user Tucker, who defined it as the "dominant male in a homosexual relationship who prefers being on the receiving end" (shown below).
Spread
The phrase saw increased use in pop culture over the following years, helping it spread. On
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3. R
Is there a difference between a bossy bottom and a power bottom?
Bossy bottoms are the types who claim they're the best bottom ever while bitching about their match. They also tend to reveal their insecurities about being a bottom. When it comes to the time to act, they're the ones make you chase them around the bed for the alike position, have no rhythm whatsoever and will criticize to anyone within earshot that there are no good tops.
Power bottoms possess no insecurities about creature a bottom, and their actions show that receiving penetration and being offensive are not mutually inclusive or exclusive. A force bottom can give decrees without being bitchy. There's always a grey area, and they enjoy exploring all options. And if you're participating in community sex, they're the ones who aren't trying to hold court but you exchange numbers with them because they were fantastic sex with no silly hangups.
Oh, and because of bossy bottom's big mouth, he unintentionally helps dominance pottoms find and preserve the prize tops. So if you're a highest looking for a excellent power bottom, pick a guy who comes across as a bossy bottom. They're viral campaigners on dating apps. Idiots.
by Anonymous
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Is there a difference between a bossy bottom and a power bottom?
Bossy bottoms are the types who claim they're the best bottom ever while bitching about their match. They also tend to reveal their insecurities about being a bottom. When it comes to the time to act, they're the ones make you chase them around the bed for the alike position, have no rhythm whatsoever and will criticize to anyone within earshot that there are no good tops.
Power bottoms possess no insecurities about creature a bottom, and their actions show that receiving penetration and being offensive are not mutually inclusive or exclusive. A force bottom can give decrees without being bitchy. There's always a grey area, and they enjoy exploring all options. And if you're participating in community sex, they're the ones who aren't trying to hold court but you exchange numbers with them because they were fantastic sex with no silly hangups.
Oh, and because of bossy bottom's big mouth, he unintentionally helps dominance pottoms find and preserve the prize tops. So if you're a highest looking for a excellent power bottom, pick a guy who comes across as a bossy bottom. They're viral campaigners on dating apps. Idiots.
| by Anonymous |