How to prep for gay anal
Ever wanted to know the secrets to becoming a power bottom? Want to know how to see after the bottoms in your life? Curious to give bottoming a experiment but not sure how to begin?
We can facilitate you become a beat bottom! Here are some quick bottoming tips and tricks from ACON’s peer-workshop Booty Basics.
1. Lube
The arse does not produce its own lubrication.
This means that lube is really, really important for any anal play. First, to end damage to the internal lining of your arse. Second, to make bottoming (and topping!) more pleasurable. And third, to assist protect it from infections.
Remember to use water or silicon-based lubes, as oil-based lubes can damage condoms.
2. You
The second principle is YOU. This is the one that covers off all the mental and emotional aspects such as making sure you perceive safe, making sure there is consent, that you feel comfortable, that you know your own bottoming limits and desires.
Remember, sex is best for everyone if all the people involved are motivated by trying to maximise everyone’s pleasure safely. You can’t be a good partner and you can’t trial pleasure for yourself if you’re stressed or uncomfortable (bottom or not!).
3. R
Would you describe yourself as douche-curious? Perhaps you’ve been douching for a while but are looking for pointers. However seasoned you are at putting things up your butt, there’s always something new to learn! So we’ve insert together a beginner&#;s mentor to anal douching with everything you need to know when you long to start squirting down below. 😉
What is anal douching?
Douching is the execute of shooting a jet of warm water or a saline solution into the rectum to scrub it out before sex. Douching uses several types of devices to realize this, each referred to as a ‘douche’. We’ll cover these in more detail below.
Some people may instead use what’s acknowledged as an enema for douching. These are medical devices designed to relieve constipation and are not recommended for douching, as they often come with a medicated solution to soften stools or apply a far greater volume of liquid than is required when preparing for anal sex.
Should you douche?
That’s up to you! Whether you douche or not is entirely up to the individual.
Many guys prefer to douche because it reassures them of no surprises when it comes to hooking up. But for those who save a fibre-rich diet and drink plenty of wate
A Beginner’s Guide to Bottoming During Sex
FOR THOSE WHO bottom, it can be the ultimate act of pleasure. But for some—regardless of if you are new to it, returning to the bottom bunk, or still trying your best to enjoy it—it can feel like an uncomfortable chore.
Just to clear up exactly what we’re walking about here: “bottoming” refers to organism a receptive partner during anal sex. The bottom is the partner that is taking the penis or dildo inside of them, while the person who is the insertive partner is often referred to as a “top” or the person “topping.”
Verbiage aside, bottoming can cause a lot of people anxiety. I signify, it’s obvious why: despite anal sex being completely normal, it’s rarely talked about. And in a world where people are barely even taught about vaginal sex, there’s even less taught to people, regardless of sexuality, about the ins and outs of going in the backdoor.
The anus might get a bad rap, or a reputation that it’s more of an exit than an entrance, but that’s simply not true. Anal sex can be pleasurable, and existence on the receiving conclude can be heavenly. (Hey, you can even hold an anal orgasm!)
But, as with all things sex, while it is natural
How To Prepare for Anal Sex As a Bottom
Updated on 12/19/
When it comes to bottoming, most of us never had access to proper education, especially when it comes to the butt. This means both beginners and experienced players have had to turn to adult movies, friends, or Reddit to figure out how to properly prepare, play, and care during anal sex. This doesn’t sound protected now, does it?
In my surgical practice, I rapidly learned that nearly everyone who engaged in backdoor intercourse had cleaning regimens that involved either rain or store-bought enemas. For those who may be unfamiliar, Preparation for anal sex involves cleansing the butt canal, most traditionally done with liquid expelled from a bulb or shower hose. Learning how to douche for anal sex properly ensures a safe and confident life. Everyone wants to be confident that they won’t have any unnecessary surprises when it’s time to play. Sometimes their diet (like fiber intake) or stress levels mean that preparation is what to do before anal participate as the final step to getting their butt squeaky clean and ready for the big D.
After realizing the lack of education, I also realized that there had never been safe and
.
Would you describe yourself as douche-curious? Perhaps you’ve been douching for a while but are looking for pointers. However seasoned you are at putting things up your butt, there’s always something new to learn! So we’ve insert together a beginner&#;s mentor to anal douching with everything you need to know when you long to start squirting down below. 😉
What is anal douching?
Douching is the execute of shooting a jet of warm water or a saline solution into the rectum to scrub it out before sex. Douching uses several types of devices to realize this, each referred to as a ‘douche’. We’ll cover these in more detail below.
Some people may instead use what’s acknowledged as an enema for douching. These are medical devices designed to relieve constipation and are not recommended for douching, as they often come with a medicated solution to soften stools or apply a far greater volume of liquid than is required when preparing for anal sex.
Should you douche?
That’s up to you! Whether you douche or not is entirely up to the individual.
Many guys prefer to douche because it reassures them of no surprises when it comes to hooking up. But for those who save a fibre-rich diet and drink plenty of wate
A Beginner’s Guide to Bottoming During Sex
FOR THOSE WHO bottom, it can be the ultimate act of pleasure. But for some—regardless of if you are new to it, returning to the bottom bunk, or still trying your best to enjoy it—it can feel like an uncomfortable chore.
Just to clear up exactly what we’re walking about here: “bottoming” refers to organism a receptive partner during anal sex. The bottom is the partner that is taking the penis or dildo inside of them, while the person who is the insertive partner is often referred to as a “top” or the person “topping.”
Verbiage aside, bottoming can cause a lot of people anxiety. I signify, it’s obvious why: despite anal sex being completely normal, it’s rarely talked about. And in a world where people are barely even taught about vaginal sex, there’s even less taught to people, regardless of sexuality, about the ins and outs of going in the backdoor.
The anus might get a bad rap, or a reputation that it’s more of an exit than an entrance, but that’s simply not true. Anal sex can be pleasurable, and existence on the receiving conclude can be heavenly. (Hey, you can even hold an anal orgasm!)
But, as with all things sex, while it is natural
How To Prepare for Anal Sex As a Bottom
Updated on 12/19/
When it comes to bottoming, most of us never had access to proper education, especially when it comes to the butt. This means both beginners and experienced players have had to turn to adult movies, friends, or Reddit to figure out how to properly prepare, play, and care during anal sex. This doesn’t sound protected now, does it?
In my surgical practice, I rapidly learned that nearly everyone who engaged in backdoor intercourse had cleaning regimens that involved either rain or store-bought enemas. For those who may be unfamiliar, Preparation for anal sex involves cleansing the butt canal, most traditionally done with liquid expelled from a bulb or shower hose. Learning how to douche for anal sex properly ensures a safe and confident life. Everyone wants to be confident that they won’t have any unnecessary surprises when it’s time to play. Sometimes their diet (like fiber intake) or stress levels mean that preparation is what to do before anal participate as the final step to getting their butt squeaky clean and ready for the big D.
After realizing the lack of education, I also realized that there had never been safe and
.